All over and again

Well,
Here it is the third state that we have tried to finish our adoption processes through the state, and what happens? An opportunity provides itself to perhaps adopt privatly. A girl and boy who are brother and sister.
This is where it gets hard. You can get so excited about having two great kids in your home, but them you have to actually get the adoption finalized. The mom has to do everything that is expected, and the court system has to help you understand all that is needed to have all the legal aspects covered.
So we are at the point where it all depends on the mother of the two kids, and if she really wants to have her two kids have a better life.
We will just have to wait it out.
We always hope for the best and do whatever we can to make it work!